Help! guy help sorry so longggg?

So I go to this bar and the one bouncer is a huge flirt. A few of my girlfriends work at this bar and we went there the other night after he told me he was going for a drink. He was drunk.and I got a little drunk we ended up getting with eachother and he wanted me to come over just to snuggle which I believe him when he said nothing else I didnt go. Next day I talked to him and he was saying how he enjoyed getting with me and remembered everything. He messaged Me later wanting me to come over but I already had plans. The following day he worked for a little bit at the bar but was done at 11 I told him to wait a little bit for me to get there he said he'd try but no guarantee I.got there and he was still there. The twist is we have to be somewhat of a secret cause of he's ex who everyone there knows and watches him. He came right up to me and hugged me and kept touching and grabbingMe when we were around eachother but couldn't make it completely obvious cause the people there nothing happened:/ he's a really nice guy who I honestly don't think would do me wrong. Idc if nothing ever happens i like just getting with him but would def do.more cause Im really starting to like him and everyones saying he wants me but idk what to do???